Most people are hoping to find real love one day. But how do you get there? Judging from the amount of relationship pain around us, going with the flow of the culture might not be the best idea, right? Like a fire, sex is great when it's where it belongs, but physically, relationally, and emotionally destructive when out of bounds. It might make sense to take some time to figure out who you are, realize how valuable you are, and decide what you really want while keeping that sex present wrapped up until your wedding night.

Even if you've already had sex, we all make decisions we later regret and we all need to do a 180degree turn at some point in our lives. So remember, you are just as valuable as ever and you are definitely not alone. Learn more about others just like you.